Thursday, September 18, 2008

Who needs a schedule?!?

Maddy's normal energetic self.


So in the Parents in Process class, they say that a schedule really helps newly adopted kids transition easier. Kids need the schedule? Parents are actually the ones who need a schedule! Last weekend Eric and I kind of had mutual meltdowns, realizing that most people in our family had not had a  bath/shower in a long time and that our house was chaotic to say the least. So we now have a schedule that we are trying to adhere to and when we do -- it makes our lives SO much easier!!! Plus, Madeleine doesn't have her evening tantrum - so that's good too. :)

Our Schedule (posted on a 17"x11" piece of paper in large print)
5:45 am - Madeleine wakes up+ bottle
6:30 am - Madeleine gets dressed
7:30 am - Andrew wakes up and has breakfast
8:00 am - Andrew gets dressed
8:30 am - Andrew goes to school
9:00 am - Madeleine eats breakfast (fruit+yogurt)
11:00 am - Madeleine eats lunch (meat, veggie, bread)
11:30 am - Madeleine takes a nap
12-2 pm  - lunch, chores, wash dishes
2:00 pm - Madeleine wakes up
2-2:30 pm - Madeleine bottle
3-4 pm  - Madeleine outside time
4:30 pm - Madeleine snack
5:00 pm - Make dinner and pick up Andrew at pre-school
6:00 pm - eat dinner (everyone)
7:00 pm - Madeleine bottle
7:30 pm - Madeleine goes to bed + Andrew takes a bath
8:00 pm - Andrew gets ready for bed
8:30 pm - Andrew goes to bed
 

Eating fruit loops.
Yes, that is a large dent on the side of her head. :( She tripped over a broom and fell into the table the other day.
This is her "scwunched" nose look - which is a fake "I'm mad" look because she laughs right after making it.
Andrew eating his breakfast on the new schedule. :)


2 comments:

Rebekah Wilson said...

I love Andrew's thumbs up! Schedules were never my thing either until Kaitlyn came along and once she hit 1, we realized that we needed one if we, too, were going to avoid evening meltdowns...and that includes Kaitlyn too. Kait and Maddy's schedules are very similar and I LOVE ALL HER OUTFITS!!!! I just worry what will happen when it is too cold to play outside...right now, outside time is what saves our day...

Stevens Family said...

So, so busy! Having a set schedule is a must for us too. It keeps the chaos to a minimum.